This is for the ladies who have chosen to stay in a serious relationship with a man based on love. If you are in this category, then grab a sit with your pen and jotter, because what you are about to know will blow your mind. This things are not new, because you see them everywhere. It is not a crime for a lady to talk about her guy in the midst of friends, but what are you actually saying concerning him?
One underlining fact you must know is that when one friend tells how good or bad her man is before her friends the others want to prove otherwise
Your friends want to know how your relationship is going and how you are flowing with your man. They bring up twisted conversations just to get you talking and most especially they want to hear you talk about the bad side of him. Ladies like to go out have fun and to spice up this they generate irrelevant conversations and often they talk about men and relationships. This is how the ball is played, if i talk about the dirty things about my guy and my relationship i would want the others to tell me theirs and that’s how it plays. A lady who’s in a serious relationship with a man based on love must protect the intergrity of that man even though there can be a flaw on the side of the man sometimes.
A lady should be able to speak wisely when she must talk about her man outside the closet. She must guard her tongue with caution. Most break-ups we see today in relationships are often sponsored or caused by wrong counsel and misconceptions from friends based on what the victim (the lady involve) must have told them concerning her man. A lady sometimes can be so careless and naive to say things like ‘how good or bad her man is on bed’ or how big or small his manh**d is’ or ‘if he snores or not at night’. As bad as these things may sound we just can’t help but let people see what’s happening around us and we see these things ladies do, ignorant of the bitter end that comes. Likely results are; misconception, break- up, betrayal by friends, abuse by friends, comparism on men, cheat by friends because your man’s small or big ‘guy’ might just be what she needs, distrust in relationship, kills focus in relationships, he loses respect from your friends, reduces your man’s value and so many bad things talking carelessly about your man does.
What are we then saying ‘don’t talk about your man?’ No. But you can watch what you say about him even if it’s a good thing you are saying like ‘My man just won a ticket for two and we are traveling to Dubai next week on a first class.’ Trust us when we say this not all your friends are happy inside to hear that. That is when they want to introduce you to latest club in town or the latest event coming up that same day you plan to travel or tell you tragic stories about flights and why you and your man should suspend the journey. Funny isn’t it, but you must have encountered a similar circumstance. Are you wondering what are some of those things that do not need a third party to know, what should be kept within you and your man? Good thing you are reading this as you would get to know. Keep a note of these things and share to your friends who do not know.
Here are 10 things you shouldn’t tell your friends about your man in a relationship.
1. HIS PAST RELATIONSHIPS
It is very good for both of you to know what your past relationships was like, but when it gets to a third party it becomes desasterous. Your friends might judge your man wrongly base on his past life with women especially when they don’t always end well with him.
2. HOW ROMANTIC HE IS OR NOT
As simple as it sounds this allows for jealousy or wrong advice.
3. HIS WEAKNESS
Friends might use your man’s weakness against him or you. Never tell your man’s weakness to any one.
4. HIS FINANCIAL STATUS
Whether rich or not too rich it’s not your friends’ business so keep it to yourself.
5. HIS BAD HABBIT (IF ANY)
Misconception by friends comes to play.
6. HIS LATEST CONTRACT
Jealousy, pride, discouragement comes in.
7. BOTH OF YOU MAKING LOVE OR NOT
This one don’t even dare. It’s left for the closet only.
8. HOW LONG HE LASTS ON BED
Very wrong for a third party to know this.
9. IF HE TAKES YOU OUT OR NOT
Don’t let your friends judge your relationship with petty things.
10. HOW OFTEN HE MAKES LOVE TO YOU
Never tell this.
THANKS TO YOU!